Thank you Meg.
I will try to find a picture of them to post.
My husband died suddenly when he was seemingly healthy and not yet 50 .. I really know what a shock it is. Just give her a lot of patience and understanding..It isn't easy...A move might be too stressful at this time...
I am sure it depends on the person and their needs. Major decisions are not usually good to make for awhile unless absolutely necessary..
One day is dreadful and the next one.. one may function well..A rollercoaster.