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Especially at 0300h, in the dark and your heart is pumping like a rabbit's.
Good point.
There's a reason you are upstairs in bed with a good woman and he's downstairs kicking in your door.
The reason is that he's a predator, and you're not.
In this situation, the predator has a lot of advantages, so you have to do your best to take advantage of the few that you have - the most important one of which is surprise.