Americans have been dying for years. See the first World Trade Center bombing, the Cole, etc. You wanted us to "understand" their rage. Saddam killed thousands. You weren't real worried about that either. Palestinians can kill all the Israelis they want. You demand that they simply take it.
You only get concerned about people dying when we decide to fight back.
Terrorists are determined to kill as many Americans as they can. They've said it over and over. They've shown us what they will do. People WILL die. We simply prefer the deaths be theirs instead of ours.
"we don't want people to die. Ever."
If so, then you can't support any pro-'choice' platform.