This is why our fairy-tales of Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella should be replaced with Shrek.
You're not a princess, you're not marrying a prince. He's an ogre, and if you're really honest with yourself, you are too.
ah- but I'm a prince of an ogre.
Though I've seen Shrek, I never thought of it that way. That's very good. Sadly, a lot of young women don't see the ogre in themselves, only in the guy. I have a son in his late 20s who tries to date, but the women just don't seem realistic in their expectations (and he's a great catch, if I do say so). At this rate, I'll never be a grandma.