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Women Choose Spouses on African Island
AP on AOL News ^ | February 1, 2007 | RUKMINI CALLIMACHI

Posted on 02/03/2007 11:41:20 AM PST by rightwingintelligentsia

ORANGO ISLAND, Guinea-Bissau (Feb. 1) - He was 14 when the girl entered his grass-covered hut and placed a plate in front of him containing an ancient recipe.

Like all men on this African isle, Carvadju Jose Nananghe knew exactly what it meant. Refusing was not an option. His heart pounding, he lifted the steaming fish to his lips, agreeing in one bite to marry the girl.

"I had no feelings for her," said Nananghe, now 65. "Then when I ate this meal, it was like lightning. I wanted only her."

In this archipelago of 50 islands of pale blue water off the western rim of Africa, it's women, not men, who choose. They make their proposals public by offering their grooms-to-be a dish of distinctively prepared fish, marinated in red palm oil. It's the equivalent of a man bending on one knee and offering a woman a diamond ring, except that in one of the world's matriarchal cultures, it's women that do the asking, and once they have, men are powerless to say no.

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TOPICS: Foreign Affairs
KEYWORDS: africa; alcapp; marriage; sadiehawkins; sadiehawkinsday; thirdworld

1 posted on 02/03/2007 11:41:21 AM PST by rightwingintelligentsia
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

Wow, just like here. The babes do the picking.


Regards.


2 posted on 02/03/2007 11:51:49 AM PST by ARE SOLE (Agents Ramos and Campean are in prison at this very moment.)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia
In recent years, young men have become increasingly bold, going so far as to openly propose marriage - a dangerous turn, say traditionalists.

"The choice of a woman is much more stable," explains Okrane. "Rarely were there divorces before. Now, with men choosing, divorce has become common."

Welcome to the civilized world.

3 posted on 02/03/2007 11:55:08 AM PST by thiscouldbemoreconfusing
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

I want some of that fish.

But, be careful who serves it to you. Andrea Dworkin, for example.


4 posted on 02/03/2007 11:57:02 AM PST by RightOnTheLeftCoast ([Hunter/Rumsfeld 2008!])
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To: RightOnTheLeftCoast

I hear Hillary is looking to trade up once she's in office.

Then again Rosie is taken.


5 posted on 02/03/2007 12:04:38 PM PST by driftdiver
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To: RightOnTheLeftCoast

Really... what do you do if some fat hairy feminist comes into your hut with a bowl of soup?


6 posted on 02/03/2007 12:14:47 PM PST by Rodney King (No, we can't all just get along.)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

Who was it who first said that if all women suddenly decided that they'd only become intimate with men who walked around on their hands, in a moment or two, half the human race would be upside down?


7 posted on 02/03/2007 12:20:36 PM PST by snarks_when_bored
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

Considering how this story plays into the hands of some university feminist fantasies . . . I'm going to give this one a tentative call of B$ll Sh$t.


8 posted on 02/03/2007 12:24:32 PM PST by NaughtiusMaximus (Our troops are smart. It's our politicians who are stupid.)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia
Must have been "Sadie Hawkins Day".

FMCDH(BITS)

9 posted on 02/03/2007 12:50:51 PM PST by nothingnew (I fear for my Republic due to marxist influence in our government. Open eyes/see)
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To: rightwingintelligentsia
"Then when I ate this meal, it was like lightning. I wanted only her."

She must have caught him one delicious bass.
10 posted on 02/03/2007 1:01:08 PM PST by non-anonymous
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To: snarks_when_bored

Half the human race is already upside down, but only intermittently, and only after 10 PM.


11 posted on 02/03/2007 7:09:43 PM PST by Jack Hammer
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To: Jack Hammer
Half the human race is already upside down, but only intermittently, and only after 10 PM.

(grin)

12 posted on 02/03/2007 8:53:14 PM PST by snarks_when_bored
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To: non-anonymous

She must have caught him one delicious bass.
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Femininity ;-P


13 posted on 02/03/2007 8:57:32 PM PST by Grizzled Bear ("Does not play well with others.")
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To: rightwingintelligentsia

You seen some of those topless African babes in National Geographic? Pretty hot stuff.


14 posted on 02/03/2007 9:10:31 PM PST by Contra
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To: thiscouldbemoreconfusing

are you suggesting that skyrocking divorce rates = civilization?


15 posted on 02/05/2007 7:13:30 PM PST by zimdog
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To: zimdog
Civilization = high divorce rate, abortion, homosexuality, euthanasia, no absolute truths, the ACLU, I need go no further, I do believe I have made my point.
16 posted on 02/05/2007 7:29:48 PM PST by thiscouldbemoreconfusing
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To: thiscouldbemoreconfusing

thank you for clarifying.


17 posted on 02/06/2007 4:43:55 AM PST by zimdog
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