To the guys on the thread:
Isn't there an unwritten Male Friend law that you don't sleep with your friend's wife?
We girls have that kind of law...
The ducks thing reminds me of one of the first episodes of The Sopranos with Tony and the ducks in the pool. I loved that episode!
That is part of the male code but too many males don't sign on to the code.
I don't sleep with anyone's wife, but that does remind me of a Clint Eastwood movie (forget which one) (back when Clint was cool, he's just a putz now).
Clint had shot his wife because he caught her in bed with his best friend. He was then asked, "Why didn't you shoot the guy, too?"
Clint said, "I couldn't do that, he was my best friend!"