I saw what you put next to your screename in parenthesis.
I've had this conversation with another Alpha-Male friend of mine and our women, we broke it down this way.
FOOD, MONEY, SEX, SLEEP
If women would like to understand us better, this is how we operate. Sex is only third because you have to have food to stay alive, money for shelter and a bed, sex, you need 1 and 2 first, sleep-after sex, often immediately.