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Listen up Mrs. Don-O. We women JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND THE MALE URGE. We are animals...the male animal's job is to procreate. That's it...it's not to form long lasting monogamous relationships. That's our job as women. This guy wanted to experience this natural urge before he dies. The ultimate feminization of the world is to make men feel guilty for feeling this urge.

Yes, the male instinct to survive is to pro-create, it's inbred, no stopping it, suppressing it is not doing God's will, it's denying our nature.

Men are instinctually attracted to women for fertility, to pro-create to survive. Also a reason why so many men are attracted to younger women. This instinct causes men to destroy their marriages, relationships, etc. too.

To understand the beast you have to know the beast.

The ultimate feminization of the world is to make men feel guilty for feeling this urge.

I've never felt, or been made to feel, guilty for having the urge. It whether or not, and how, one chooses to act on that urge that is at question here.

I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous. I am not a male and I have urges ALL THE TIME!!! It's not just for men. And just because we have these urges does not mean they should be acted upon whenever we feel like it. Sex is a gift from God and with it comes responsibilities. Not only did he have sex outside of marriage, I'm assuming there was some form of birth control involved(killing that whole "male animal's job is to procreate" argument). From my Catholic view, this is also a grave sin. He's not only hurting his own soul but those of all the others involved.

Maybe God wanted him to stand up for boys all over and be an example that the mind is stronger than the body.

There's nothing to feel guilty about. Having urges is perfectly normal. A man that can control those urges for his future wife makes him the strongest and most desirable man out there. Comparing a male human to a male animal is a huge put-down to men all over the world. Saying you expect nothing less of them is offensive. Men have minds.

I'm still sickened but the congratulatory posts to this young man.

Not at all, Hildy. I'm not trying to make a male feel guilty for feeling a sexual urge. By your own logic, though, it's wrong for a male to treat the female as if she had no innate yearning to invest herself in a long-lasting monogamous relationship: to treat her as if she were (emotionally) a male with a vagina.

Or even stranger, a kind of sexual vending machine: a softly-upholstered home therapeutic device with a vagina.