[samiam1972]

I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous. I am not a male and I have urges ALL THE TIME!!! It's not just for men. And just because we have these urges does not mean they should be acted upon whenever we feel like it. Sex is a gift from God and with it comes responsibilities. Not only did he have sex outside of marriage, I'm assuming there was some form of birth control involved(killing that whole "male animal's job is to procreate" argument). From my Catholic view, this is also a grave sin. He's not only hurting his own soul but those of all the others involved.

Maybe God wanted him to stand up for boys all over and be an example that the mind is stronger than the body.

There's nothing to feel guilty about. Having urges is perfectly normal. A man that can control those urges for his future wife makes him the strongest and most desirable man out there. Comparing a male human to a male animal is a huge put-down to men all over the world. Saying you expect nothing less of them is offensive. Men have minds.

I'm still sickened but the congratulatory posts to this young man.

[word_warrior_bob]

I'll be succumbing to my base, animalistic, godless caveman urges between the hours of 10 to 11:30, God Willing ;)

[word_warrior_bob]

I'm sorry, but that is ridiculous. I am not a male and I have urges ALL THE TIME!!! It's not just for men

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HMMMMM, please continue...

[The Spirit Of Allegiance]

A man that can control those urges for his future wife makes him the strongest and most desirable man out there. Comparing a male human to a male animal is a huge put-down to men all over the world. Saying you expect nothing less of them is offensive...

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AND DOESN'T HOLD THEM TO THE LEADERSHIP/HEADSHIP RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. Thus the 'why buy a cow when milk is so cheap' school of thought is so sadly often shared among those whom women should be able to trust to defend their honor--instead, they steal it. Men are bigger supporters of abortion than are women.

But it's clear that, unless one has a renewing of the mind, they will go for the immediate gratification, self-indulgence. My own mind is being continually renewed by meditating on God's Word. I'm waiting for my wife, gladly.

[cherry]

you have to feel a little sorry for women that have no sexual drive of their own....I guess they're developing some new female libido pills for women like that....

people don't like to acknowledge female sex drives though...its not "nice" to talk about it since we're not supposed to have any feelings like that...per Hildy....

I maintain strongly that women infact have much more powerful sexual drives than men....its not simply physical and it lasts more than a few minutes....its why we have 3 billion people in the world....