Are you married?......
I am happily married, my wife still works by her own choice. Her job involves a lot of travel and I go where she goes when I want to and stay at home when I want to.
I'm not trying to sell anyone on retirement it does work for some however.
Some retirees are just as you described, I have friends who retired, one of them took a job at a car wash soon after retirement and I know for a fact that it wasn't for the money.Another frind, an avid hunter/fisherman used to spend all his free time hunting or fishing, now all of his tiime is free time, it's hard to ever find him at home.