[Melas]

It's mostly about just having the balls to be yourself and speak your mind. Guys who follow their own interests and speak their own minds are masucline. Guys who're afraid to stand out or express themselves aren't masculine. Timidity and extreme self-consciousness aren't masculine traits. Couple that with the couch potato'dness of said man, why would a woman bother? Of course women want involved, active, bold men. Why wouldn't they? Who wants the introverted spectator content to watch fictitious people live life on TV?

[HitmanLV]

Yes, and a man can illustrate those masculine qualities in any number of ways. And women know that if a man is too timid to stand up for himself (with her, with others), he will never stand up for her should the situation arise. I'm not talking fisticuffs (not all men are fighters and that's fine). But guys, she has to be able to count on you.

And she knows she can't if you can't even count on yourself.

[JamesP81]

It's mostly about just having the balls to be yourself and speak your mind. Guys who follow their own interests and speak their own minds are masucline

I do this pretty much all the time. Hasn't generated a lot of results yet either. And no, I'm not looking for women in all the wrong places. I've restricted it to church activities mostly.