All that stuff is fine. Bering masculine isn't a series of tricks you do or don't do. It's the way you carry yourself, confidence, dominance, making her feel safe, making her feel pretty and sexy, and other stuff.
I know this is probably a silly question, but are you a guy or a girl hitman. Just curious.
It's mostly about just having the balls to be yourself and speak your mind. Guys who follow their own interests and speak their own minds are masucline. Guys who're afraid to stand out or express themselves aren't masculine. Timidity and extreme self-consciousness aren't masculine traits. Couple that with the couch potato'dness of said man, why would a woman bother? Of course women want involved, active, bold men. Why wouldn't they? Who wants the introverted spectator content to watch fictitious people live life on TV?