What a jerk!
Sounds like that whiney nancy-boy needs to be b*tch-slapped and force-fed a big bowl of Harden The F**k Up.
Call me an ignorant, primitive caveman, but it's the MAN's job to see to it that the mother of his children be provided for during the children's formative years. Mom needs to be free to see to the kids' needs until such a time when they are old enough to take care of themselves around the house.
Oh' you are far worse than an "ignorant, primitive caveman" you are a male chauvinist pig, for keeping your wife down in a post paternatist's society where genetics are gender neutral and even woman can be speaker of the House.