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See Dick call. See Jane text. Why parents are giving in to children's requests for cell phones
Star Ledger ^ | 12.10.06 | KELLY HEYBOER

Posted on 01/01/2007 1:45:53 PM PST by Coleus

Joe Skarimbas was just learning to read when he decided he was ready to join the digital age. "When he went to first grade he said, 'When am I going to get a cell phone?'" said Joe's mother, Tara Skarimbas.

The Leonia family decided to hold off on getting young Joe a phone until he turns 10 and starts walking home from school alone. But his mother understands the temptation to get her son, who turns 8 this month, a cell phone as soon as possible.

"Just for safety purposes," she said, glancing toward the new Disney Mobile kiosk during a shopping trip to the Paramus Park mall last week.

As the adult and teenage cell phone market becomes saturated, cell phone companies are targeting younger and younger users. This holiday season several companies -- including Disney, Verizon, TicTalk and Firefly -- are pushing brightly colored cell phones specially designed for children as young as kindergartners.

(Excerpt) Read more at nj.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: cellphones; consumerculture; consumerism; culturewar; instantgratification; parentsnotfriends; tweens
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To: skimask
Have they made us more productive?

Absolutely! Ask any real estate agent. They can conduct 90% of their business while in their car, rather than making trips back and forth to their office to use the phone.

141 posted on 01/01/2007 5:28:11 PM PST by FreedomCalls (It's the "Statue of Liberty," not the "Statue of Security.")
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To: mtbopfuyn

Lots of kids go to school without cell phones and are just as safe as if they had one. They have no need to carry one around with them IN the school from class to class.


142 posted on 01/01/2007 5:29:15 PM PST by metmom (Welfare was never meant to be a career choice.)
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To: mtbopfuyn
I like that high school, finally some principal enforcing the rules. cell phones are a vehicle for drug dealing, cheating on tests and a nuisance. schools are for learning not chatting incessantly about nothing.
143 posted on 01/01/2007 5:31:32 PM PST by Coleus (Happy New Year!)
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To: Coleus
IMO your very wrong. I have a daughter 18, one 17, a son 16, and a daughter 15. They all have cell phones. Three of them because they drive alone at night and in this day age its a risk to let them be alone without one. The youngest has one to contact the others too pick her up and take her places when my wife and I are out of touch. They dont all have tons of minutes and they pay for their own texts.
144 posted on 01/01/2007 5:33:32 PM PST by DainBramage
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To: Nathan Zachary
Teach them how to use a pay phone.

Have you recently tried to find one? From the Miami Herald:

Pay phones have become a dying breed

Nationwide, about one million pay phones have been yanked from street corners, bar bathrooms, airport terminals, hotel lobbies and other spots since 1999. There are fewer than one million still in service, industry experts say, and the number gets smaller every day.

Florida has lost about 80,000 pay phones in the past seven years, leaving fewer than 40,000 in service today, Renard said.


145 posted on 01/01/2007 5:34:43 PM PST by FreedomCalls (It's the "Statue of Liberty," not the "Statue of Security.")
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To: DainBramage

I could list over 100 million people who lived through their teen aged years and made it. We drove at night, worked at night, went to school during the day and at night. We even lived through the depression, WWII, nuclear bombs, fallout shelters, air raid drills in schools, the riots of 1968. Heck, we even walked to school and some actually woke up at the crack of dawn to work on farms while today, the sniveling liberals want to start school at 10 am for the poor teens because they can't sleep at night and can't wake up early. They don't make enough melatonin to fall asleep. One of these days the umbilical cord must be cut.


146 posted on 01/01/2007 5:39:43 PM PST by Coleus (Happy New Year!)
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To: ClearCase_guy
In my experience, kids tend to "miss the bus" somewhat more frequently if they know that they can dial up Mom and get a ride home whenever they feel like it. Kids who end up stranded some place have a tendency not to "miss the bus" next time.

And this girl would still be alive if she thought she could simply call her mom:

A six-year-old female missed the bus. She chased the bus and fell under the dual wheels as the driver pulled away from the next stop.

147 posted on 01/01/2007 5:39:58 PM PST by FreedomCalls (It's the "Statue of Liberty," not the "Statue of Security.")
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To: Coleus
You didnt grow up in this world friend.Things are much more dangerous. Girls drive alone at night. If the car breaks they need to have a phone. Risking your daughters life because you want to "cut the cord" is unwise at least. The technology is there so we use it.
148 posted on 01/01/2007 5:44:02 PM PST by DainBramage
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To: Coleus

You sound very cynical and judgmental and not as though you have any children.


149 posted on 01/01/2007 5:45:15 PM PST by yldstrk (My heros have always been cowboys--Reagan and Bush)
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To: Coleus

Those of us that grew up the in the 1950's, 60's and 70's. Did just fine without cell phones, ipods and so on.


150 posted on 01/01/2007 5:47:56 PM PST by navygal (Numbers 6:24-26)
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To: Nathan Zachary
The school cannot deny your kid the use of a phone to call home.

Yes they can. See post #86.

"I sat in the MS office last year waiting for my son and watched the secretary tell a 12 year old girl she couldn't call her mom at work because it wasn't a local call."

151 posted on 01/01/2007 5:49:25 PM PST by FreedomCalls (It's the "Statue of Liberty," not the "Statue of Security.")
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To: Diana in Wisconsin
Switch your plan to pre-paid. And when they use them up, tough.

Our two oldest boys (13 and 18 years) have exactly that. 18 year-old-senior is employed and yaps on his phone for as long as his paycheck allows and 13 year-old-7th-grader has been pleasently responsible with his pre-paid minutes.

Valuable lesson indeed learned.

Happy New Year!
152 posted on 01/01/2007 5:49:58 PM PST by Sweet_Sunflower29 (Interferon Beta 1-b is my new best friend. <><)
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To: Coleus

I hate my (company-paid, always-on) cell phone and would gladly give it away if I could. Other than for emergencies, I can't imagine why anyone would carry one, let alone a kid.


153 posted on 01/01/2007 5:50:18 PM PST by wbill
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To: L98Fiero
NOT making sure everyone in ear-shot can hear their "private" conversations...which are so life-threateningly critical. "Whatcha doin'? ...Oh, I'm in Target looking at toilet paper. ...He said what? On TV?"

And so on. Total Drivel. Annoying, too.

154 posted on 01/01/2007 5:56:30 PM PST by wbill
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To: Coleus
I'm a single dad of 4 daughters, all of whom do many sports, etc. activities. They would survive without cellphones, but my life would be a hell of a lot harder. Glad you don't make rules in my house!
155 posted on 01/01/2007 5:59:43 PM PST by Fierce Allegiance (SAY NO TO RUDY!)
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To: Souled_Out

I understand what you are saying, but when I went to high school (late 60's early 70's) twice we had huge riots and our school was in lockdown for "hours" as well. We stayed in our class and when the school released us parents came for us. How is that very different? And we didn't have cell phones.


156 posted on 01/01/2007 6:01:17 PM PST by greccogirl
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To: Fierce Allegiance
Glad you don't make rules in my house!

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If you live by rules and a schedule you don't need cell phones and with 4 daughters it's not cell phones you need, it's ear plugs.
157 posted on 01/01/2007 6:01:46 PM PST by Coleus (Happy New Year!)
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To: Coleus

Of course kids need cell phones. It's a lifeline to mom and dad. You'd have a lot less abducted kids if they all could call mom or dad when they were in a scary situation. Criminals seem to avoid situations where they see someone dialing 911. I had a dude attacking me in a road rage type deal once, and he backed off when he saw me calling the cops. I still got the jerk's plate number, though. No cell phone and I'd be missing some teeth, at the very least.


158 posted on 01/01/2007 6:03:17 PM PST by mysterio
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To: NapkinUser

My kid do swimming, and I am not hanging out in the pool area for 12 hours a week. On occasion, there is a problem. I like knowing they can contact me instantly, as they are not allowed to use the school phones, and they no longer have pay phones.


159 posted on 01/01/2007 6:04:22 PM PST by Fierce Allegiance (SAY NO TO RUDY!)
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To: FreedomCalls

Now how do you know she "would be alive" if she'd had a cell phone? There is absolutely nothing in that story to indicate having a cell phone would have made her not chase the bus!


160 posted on 01/01/2007 6:05:28 PM PST by greccogirl
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