Here was the post (post #125) of Cogadh's that made me respond in kind:
"Hmmm: Hot (american) wife, couple kids, engineering degree, real estate, big paycheck and 16 years in the Nat. Guard....Yeah, pathetic...."
You're right, there it is, right there…right after you referred to him as a loser, a whiner, unsuccessful, less than a man, not rich, and pathetic. After reading that, I sure can't understand why he felt the need to disprove that or why you were picked on tonight.
Look, cammie, I'm sure you are a good and decent person at heart; but can you not recognize that you took some wild leaps to condemn this man. He may be the sleazy lounge lizard that you think he is, but he may not be. You don't know. You seem to put forth a lot of piss and vinegar regarding men.
Some of us men, who are also good and decent people, are just tired of hearing about manhood being something that needs to be overcome; that men are inferior to women (and I am not implying the converse). We don't all sleep around, think with our dicks (if only I had one), view women as subservient. Some of us love our wives for the marvelous and equal women they are, not just for the physical; in fact many of us understand that sex really is about love between two people, the giving of pleasure, and much less about physical appearance.
I've actually enjoyed the exchange tonight. I sincerely wish you a merry Christmas. Good night.