[Monterrosa-24]

If you could read you would have seen that I prefaced my advice by stating that "if" she asked me for advice this is what I would blah blah blah.

I did not presume to be a better parent just because I'm 15 years older and have five children. I am in a better situation that she is in (wouldn't mind being 15 years younger though).

[nopardons]

You may NOT actually "be in a better position than she is"; you really don't know that for a fact. And it is none of your business that she is going to have a baby, nor is it your place to assume that YOU have all the right answers for everyone.