There is NO "God given right" for children to be raised by fathers. Throughout recorded history, many children have never known their own fathers because of death due to war and/or disease. Rape or consensual unmarried sexual congress has also kept many fathers out of children's' lives, as has divorce.
Though the concept of teenagehood is the youngest age specific class ( made up in the late thirties/early forties ), childhood, as we all think of it, isn't really all that much older, having been more or less invented in Victorian times and then, ONLY for the upper middle and upper classes!
Children of the upper classes used to be farmed out to others, of the same station, to be raised to be knights, in the Middle Ages, with the poor and lower class' children being shipped off to work in higher class homes as servants. Farm children worked on farms, devoid, more or less of childhoods and once the Industrial Revolution hit, they went off to work in mills and mines and sweatshops; as well as being servants and prostitutes and thieves.
Some heterosexuals make terrible parents, so do some homosexuals and lesbians. The reverse is also true.
History is a fascinating subject.......I suggest that you learn some.
I thought I was the only person who understood this:
Though the concept of teenagehood is the youngest age specific class ( made up in the late thirties/early forties ), childhood, as we all think of it, isn't really all that much older, having been more or less invented in Victorian times and then, ONLY for the upper middle and upper classes!
Your anecdotes do not align with the aggregate patterns of behavior and the steady progress of Western civilization towards "spiritual man" and away from "animal man" for 5000 years up until the past 40 years, when elites in the US and Europe starting trying to shove Marxism down everyone's throat.
"Children of the upper classes used to be farmed out to others, of the same station, to be raised to be knights, in the Middle Ages, with the poor and lower class' children being shipped off to work in higher class homes as servants. Farm children worked on farms, devoid, more or less of childhoods and once the Industrial Revolution hit, they went off to work in mills and mines and sweatshops; as well as being servants and prostitutes and thieves."
And I believe it's God's will for us to evolve past these archaic tradtions of medieval and industrial societies. Capitalism and the Judeo-Christian ethic have helped foster a world in which we can now hope to have functional parents more often than not. I don't see how gay parenting can be justified by the fact that parenting was dysfunctional over the greater course of history. Good points though.