"...Donating is one thing, how many kids have you adopted?..."
Your Q is a red herring but the answer is ONE.
But none of us get brownie points for adopting healthy white youngsters because there is a shortage of those waiting for adoptions. The greatest demand is for infants, then young children, and older children are less "adoptable". But there are some great traditional one man and one woman couples that adopt handicapped children and older children.
Good for you, you are a hero in my book, I have nothing but praise for you.
What bothers me is that so many people damn those who adopt that are gay, and don't care so much about the quality of life for the kid, just the condemnation of the parents.