[HitmanLV]

Oh, with a few good questions in a email or phone conversation or on a blind date, you can certainly figure it out

True, I never suggested otherwise. But that's misdirection and not on point. It was you who raised Starbcuks guy, not me. And you never suggested that you shared emails or phone conversations with him.

Your point here is 100% correct and valid, but has nothing much to do with what I was responding to in your post. You came across as cavalierly dismissing a man because of the nature of his work. I reread your post and found nothing to support what you are writing now. While I agree with you here, it's a different message than what I responded to.

[Accygirl]

I do dismiss a guy because of the nature of his work... If that's what the guy is truly doing with his life and his major goal is to become assistant manager, then I would say good bye quickly. This is different than a guy putting himself through grad school by making lattes; that guy's career is as a lawyer, teacher, professor, researcher, etc. not a Starbuck's barista.