[Accygirl]

I do dismiss a guy because of the nature of his work... If that's what the guy is truly doing with his life and his major goal is to become assistant manager, then I would say good bye quickly. This is different than a guy putting himself through grad school by making lattes; that guy's career is as a lawyer, teacher, professor, researcher, etc. not a Starbuck's barista.

[HitmanLV]

So you do make an effort to find out? Good - you failed to communicate that in your earlier post. Thanks for clarifying it.

I will say that a guy putting himself through college isn't exactly a lawyer, teacher, or professor yet. Suggesting that they are is silly. He does have a goal and is working towards it, to his credit. and credit to women who give credit to that. But, you do have to ask, and more importantly listen.

I do agree with you and feel that many women find a guy with a dead-end job and a dead-end ambition to be unappealing. I agree and can see why a woman would dismiss a guy like that. I think it's right, in fact.