Posted on 11/20/2006 2:50:43 PM PST by madprof98
I believe many gays are children who were neglected by a same sex parent; they're always looking for that parent's love and approval that they never got as children.
And God changed his heart and his sinful nature when he became born again.
I don't observe the "girls-are-icky" factor as my two best gay friends love women and appreciate the female form (curves, not the supermodel sticks), even they are definitely sexually attracted to men rather than women.
Immaturity is exactly the ailment that gays have. None other.
Cure that, and they will move on.
As a female, how does it feel to be envied and sexually ignored by such men? They are as much your friends as any girlfriend... ie. they are cut-throat competitors to be Queen.
Useful for the moment, but hardly friends.
"I was flattered but that I was a happily married man, in love with my wife"
Hard to understand how any person would be flattered for attracting a sexual deviant. Incidentally, most male homos are pedophiles and were molested themselves as kids. In today's intolerant society, homos will never admit their wish to molest young boys to normal (aka, straight) people. Their desire for sex with children is still in the closet.
Attracting a homo is not unlike attracting a dog to hump your leg or attracting a sibling to the bedroom. Sexual deviancy crosses species lines and has no boundaries when it comes to age and close relatives.
Wow, great story Joe. What is funny is that as I was reading your post, I was really thinking that this poster was a truly cool FReeper, then as I finished and saw that it was you that posted it, well, my suspicion was confirmed.
Have a great Thanksgiving.
"I am from the camp that people ARE born gay."
I was almost convinced of the same, until the gay lobby started fighting for adoption rights and started finding ways to have babies (i.e. sperm donors or egg donors). At that point, their natural desires are made known. If a gay person is naturally gay, then it would make sense that their internal drive to procreate would not exist. The fact that they have the internal drive to be parents, tells me that they are not "naturally" gay. If their natural state does not allow them to become parents, then then why would they have such a desire to procreate?
LOL, so true.
Like I said to wagglebee, I would tell anyone that was sexually attracted to me, male or female, that I was flattered, but I would also tell them firmly that there was NO chance.
Yes, self-destructive, abhorrent behavior is usually a sad scene. Homosexuality is a bad choice.
Pretty interesting piece. Thanks for posting it.
I don't think these two particular friends envy me - they are not in "cut-throat competition" and they are true friends rather than "useful-for-the-moment."
I do see a lack of hope in their lives, however, partially explained by the article being discussed here and partially because they are on an endless, hopeless, multi-city search for a relationship that is out of alignment with the way we are created (male + female union). One of these friends, in his early 40's, has expressly advised me he is in a fight with God, and he was brought up in a Christian church and is very clear about creation and God's clear opinion about homosexuality. The other is younger - mid 20's - and less honest with himself and not willing to consider the statements in this article or the truth of the bible.
I am less convinced of that. All my gay friends have had strong mothers and non-existent fathers. It has often been months before they mention their fathers and I usually assumed by then that he wasn't in the home. I have often been wrong about that. It seems they have never made the natural break between mother and son which occurs around 3 - 5, and wanted to be 'like daddy". Just an observation.
That sums the issue quite nicely. Thanks
Your welcome!
You know what's really sad? I thought the title said 'Mike' Douglas......
"I am from the camp that people ARE born gay."
There are many inborn tendencies in people, including all manner of criminal and deviant behavior, but sometimes you must do what is right. Clearly, the inborn argument can be used as an excuse for any behavior. This is such a transparently idiotic argument it pains me to address it.
"Like I said to wagglebee, I would tell anyone that was sexually attracted to me, male or female, that I was flattered, but I would also tell them firmly that there was NO chance."
I have always found it more honorable to just tell the truth.
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