Brings to mind a discussion on another thread where I was told that politics determined my happiness. I simply said that the important things in my life and the things I love are not impacted by political events. Do they effect my love for my sons, No. For high culture, No. For my friends, No. For the Bears, No.
If the contrary were true I would have had to off myself decades ago living in this political cesspool.
You have been fortunate.
Unconditional love is a great concept, but I finally understand that in order for a relationship to work for me at least, my future wife and I must be politically and religiously compatible.
I tried unconditional love and found success only with my pet Yorkie.