Exactly. My own fiance thinks Hillary is a strong woman to be admired (she's not a flaming liberal btw). She looks at her as some kind of martyr for the way she stood by Billy during the Lewinsky ordeal. She sees her successful run into the senate and a great story of a woman who was treated by her husband like dirt, only to come back and make a name for herself. This is not an unusual attitude toward Hillary.
Naturally I am trying to disabuse her of these notions, but the fact of the matter is that the truth about Hillary is very hard to believe if you are casual observer, simply because it is so horrible. People's natural reaction is "that can't possibly be true, she can't be that horrible, it must be a far right lie". That is why we have to beat Hillary with a better candidate, not with bringing out the truth about her. We won't be believed. Rudy is the one man who can do this.
Have you tried getting her to read some of the Clinton books?