The only possibility for you to get anything out of politics is to work together with others who want a smaller and more limited government.
When you state your issues your way, you lose. You are not now and never will be in the majority in this country.
The GOP is NOT "the party of family values", and it's idiotic to keep referring to them in this way.
When you do, you raise strong majorities against you who then do stupid things like elect Democrats.