Posted on 10/24/2006 1:08:40 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd
In the 2004 teen comedy "Mean Girls," Lindsay Lohan's character, Cady, who just moved to the United States from Africa, observes that for American girls, Halloween seems to be nothing more than a day when girls can dress up in scandalous outfits and no one can say anything about it.
When mean girl Gretchen asks her friend Karen, who's barely clad in black lingerie and animal ears, what she's supposed to be, Karen points to the ears and says, "I'm a mouse. Duh."
The idea of sexy Halloween is not necessarily a new one. For years, Halloween parties have had their share of hot nurses and seductive pirates. But these are parties for adults, right?
Not anymore. With names like "Transylvania Temptress," "Handy Candy," "Major Flirt," and "Red Velvet Devil Bride," there is no doubt that costumes marketed to children and teens have become more suggestive.
Such costumes, which typically feature plunging necklines, fishnet stockings, knee-high boots and very short skirts, dominate the display at most costume shops and party supply stores, and parents are having a hard time avoiding them.
Robin Pese of Voorheesville, N.Y., the mother of two girls ages 11 and 14, walked out of a local party shop exasperated. "All the teen costumes are revealing. I walked out with nothing," she said. "You either have the adults or you have the kids, but there are no good ones for teens."
"Whatever happened to being ghosts, and just homemade costumes?" wondered Jennifer Dinova of Brunswick, N.Y., who was shopping for her daughters, ages 4 and 7. She said she was doing her best to steer her girls away from the midriff-baring get-ups and toward more practical costumes.
Even Lindsey DeVerry, 14, of Glenmont, N.Y., called the costumes for girls her age "a little weird."
Her friend Kacie Weatherhead, 13, of Guilderland, N.Y., elaborated. "They're a little racy," she said. "They all have really short skirts and are just really revealing."
Family therapist Lindy Guttman said: "It's a strange time we live in when half the doctors are women and half the lawyers are women, and all the little girls are prancing around in sexy costumes."
Guttman said girls today face "intense marketing" that didn't exist when she was a child or even when she was raising her own now-grown daughter.
Girls are bombarded from an early age with images that tell them to wear pink, love accessories and attract attention for being pretty and sexy, said Sharon Lamb, who wrote "Packaging Girlhood: Rescuing Our Daughters From Marketers' Schemes" ($24.95; St. Martin's Press) with Lyn Mikel Brown.
When it comes to Halloween, Lamb said, the costumes marketed to girls severely limit the options they see for themselves. There's nothing inherently wrong with a little girl dressing up as a pretty princess, Lamb said, but the problem comes when such feminine, passive characters are all girls can envision for themselves. And she thinks it is that same ideology that pushes girls toward hyper-sexual costumes as they get older.
To Lamb, it is not about preventing girls from feeling sexy or exploring their emerging sexuality. Halloween is one night when girls can imagine themselves to be anything they want to be, Lamb said, and she thinks it's sad when what all the girls want to be are "hot chicks."
HOLDING SEXY BACK
Sharon Lamb and Lyn Mikel Brown, who wrote "Packaging Girlhood: Rescuing Our Daughters From Marketers' Schemes" ($24.95; St. Martin's Press), offer the following tips to parents who want to encourage their daughters to think beyond the risque costumes:
• Use this as an opportunity to talk to your daughter about sexuality and appropriate ways of exploring and expressing it. Talk to girls about what they fear as well as hope for in terms of intimacy and teach them there is more to sexuality than looking sexy for a guy.
• Avoid catalogs and packaged costumes. Instead, "imagine big" with your daughter, looking to her talents, interests and fears for ideas.
• Rather than getting attention for being pretty or sexy, encourage her to attract attention for other things, such as how unique and creative her costume is, or how scary she can be.
• If she loves the glitz and accessories of traditional "girlie" costumes, find creative ways to add those elements to other costumes.
• Add an element of power to the character she chooses. If she wants to be a fairy, let her imagine she's a fairy in charge of her whole kingdom. If she wants to express her sexuality, suggest that she be a toga-wearing goddess of wisdom. "If you're playing at being grown-up, think of all the things that being grown-up means," Lamb said.
"Any parent who lets their teen (or younger) dress as described in this article needs to be horse whipped."
With the whole horse. Just Dayum.
"Any parent who lets their teen (or younger) dress as described in this article needs to be horse whipped."
With the whole horse. Just Dayum.
Sadly, many of the old-style costume ideas have been relegated as too politically incorrect by some. Cowboys, pirates, soldiers and "hobos" are too anti-PC for many.
Remember the typical liberal line: Halloween gives people the chance to act out roles they can't be during the day: sluts, whores, strippers, and the like.
Ah yes. The original cast of "Night of the Living Dead."
Here in NY too. Any costume has to be big enough to fit a snowsuit under it. :)
eeeiiiuuuwwww...lol!
"Look for the Mark Foley masks"
Don't think so. Never seen any little boy that would act like a 'homo' in public. And 90% of Americans couldn't pick a picture of Foley out of a stack...you could...I could...but not the typical person.
"Now that's SCAAARY!!"
Uh, where do you think Halloween came from? It sure doesn't have anything to do with Christianity.
My eighteen year old daughter (away at college for her freshman year) is opting to go trick or treating with a friend from the area because the parties at her college will be characterized by excessive drinking and revealing costumes on the girls. My youngest stepdaughter says these tendencies also characterized college Halloween parties when she was at college about five years ago. Times have changed.
just when you thought you had seen everything...
And if you didn't see it.... Well, too late now!
Guttman said girls today face "intense marketing" that didn't exist when she was a child or even when she was raising her own now-grown daughter.
So, how many women are doing the marketeering?
We don't "celebrate". Our church has "candy night" where the children 6th grade and under can walk the gymnasium and receive candy from the parents so that they have a candy holiday but no costumes or the like. We go shopping for Christmas on Halloween - the stores are empty!
Its not the same as when us middle agers were kids and it just isn't safe or appropriate IMHO.
Halloween Costumes Not Scary, Too SexyWTOC, GA - Oct 20, 2006Target has pulled some teen costumes because they are too sexy. The retail giant says some people were offended by the sexual nature ...
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