That was how I actually meant "winners/Losers. In every conflict between people there is a winner. Sometimes, conflicts can be resolved in a way that everyone wins. This would be the ideal solution to problems under Christian morality. But under Islamic morality, very often the moral outcome is simply to chop off someone's head. That would mean that there is at least 1 "loser" involved in the solution.
In the west we've built a society that is largely optimized to have as many people be winners as possible, but the Muslim world has not. That's how I meant the comparison. And I think it's curious that the people who have characteristics which leave them frequently on the losing side of conflict resolution in the west are drawn to Islam in such large numbers.