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Abortion Advocates Struggle Responding to Pro-Woman, Pro-Life Message
Life News ^ | 10/9/06 | Steven Ertelt

Posted on 10/09/2006 4:14:58 PM PDT by wagglebee

Pierre, SD (LifeNews.com) -- The abortion debate has long been dominated by language on both sides that often times seems as if neither side is talking to the other. While pro-life advocates typically talk about how abortion destroys the lives of babies before their birth, abortion supporters frame debate in terms of a woman's choice.

Pro-abortion groups expected backers of the South Dakota abortion ban to rely on traditional debate points to persuade voters to support the ban.

However, the pro-life group heading up the fight for the ban is turning the abortion debate on its ear. By employing pro-woman arguments that focus on how abortion hurts women and how women who have had abortions regret their decisions, leading abortion advocates are stumped on how to respond.

Vote Yes for Life campaign manager Leslee Unruh takes what she calls the pro-life "feminist" approach to the abortion debate.

Instead of discussing how abortion "murders babies" she talks about how abortion exploits women. The campaign headquarters features pictures of women and the slogan, "Abortion Hurts Women."

"We women buy the choice line. We're panicked, or we're being pressured, or we're ashamed to have a child outside marriage," Unruh told the Los Angeles Times newspaper.

She knows what she's talking about -- Unruh had an abortion 30 years ago and is still troubled by the decision.

Her language and focus on women has befuddled the other side in the process.

According to the Times, Sarah Stoesz, president and chief executive of Planned Parenthood of Minnesota and North and South Dakota, says Unruh's pro-woman, pro-life tactic is "effective" and has thrown her group's campaign "off balance."

"Historically, this debate has been focused on fetal rights, fetal life. We have a lot of language about that," Stoesz told the newspaper. "This adds an element we're not accustomed to. It's a different line of debate…. And that is something we struggle with politically."

Unruh says her groups tactics are working and points to polls showing voters moving from 47 to 39 percent against the ban to 47 to 44 against it. Abortion advocates haven't been able to make any gains because Unruh has effectively taken away their typical argument that abortion benefits women.

As a result, the pro-abortion campaign has relied on television commercials talking about the bans lack of rape and incest exceptions, designed to appeal to voters who lean pro-life on abortion in general but favor abortions in those very rare circumstances.

Her success has also led Unruh to take a stand against out of state pro-life groups with a harsher message.

She opposed the tactics of one Wisconsin group that set up shot in Rapid City with pictures of aborted babies and said their message of "anger and death" should be replaced with one of "compassion and love."

The emphasis on protecting women has appealed to state voters.

Jazmine Brown, 13, said she decided to volunteer to help support the abortion ban after seeing a pro-woman DVD at her church.

"The clips really hit me hard," she told the newspaper. "I knew women were hurt by abortion, but that implanted it in my heart."

Daniel McConchie, vice president of Americans United for Life, told the Times the pro-woman, pro-life message should resonate in other states as well. And other pro-life groups, such as Feminists for Life of America, have been successfully using the message for years.

"It's been very helpful for the pro-life movemen. Who doesn't want to protect women?" he said.


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By employing pro-woman arguments that focus on how abortion hurts women and how women who have had abortions regret their decisions, leading abortion advocates are stumped on how to respond.

It's difficult for them to admit that they want to kill as many babies as possible and don't actually care about women at all.

1 posted on 10/09/2006 4:14:59 PM PDT by wagglebee
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To: cgk; Coleus; cpforlife.org; Mr. Silverback; narses; 8mmMauser

Pro-Life Ping


2 posted on 10/09/2006 4:16:32 PM PDT by wagglebee ("We are ready for the greatest achievements in the history of freedom." -- President Bush, 1/20/05)
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To: wagglebee
There is a construction worker down the street from me whose truck has this bumper sticker:

"If it's not a baby,
then you aren't pregnant."

Kind of hard to refute that.

3 posted on 10/09/2006 4:25:20 PM PDT by backhoe
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To: wagglebee
I have long wondered about the trauma a woman must go through after she has an abortion. To execute a person who has been found guilty of a heinous crime takes a unanimous verdict by a jury of 12 peers, countless court appeals and years of abeyance on death row. However, a woman can make the decsion alone with no help, no support and no counseling to end a life. The weight of that decision must be a horrendously heavy burdento bear. I think that it also gets heavier as time passes.

It is interesting that an assembly of judges has thrown such a cloak on women, especially as they sit as arbiters of justice.
4 posted on 10/09/2006 4:28:44 PM PDT by Misplaced Texan (I hate toll roads.)
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To: wagglebee

Young Jasmine has a tender responsive heart. God bless her!

The abortion industry, and proponets are doomed for death as the end of life approaches.

The "life message" is pure and wonderful and oriented toward God and love and family.

Death always stinks!


5 posted on 10/09/2006 4:31:07 PM PDT by LadyPilgrim ((Sealed my Pardon with HIS BLOOD!!! Hallelujah!!! What a Savior))
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To: Misplaced Texan
The weight of that decision must be a horrendously heavy burdento bear. I think that it also gets heavier as time passes.

IMHO, one of the keys to unravelling the abortion culture will be making such women understand that they can't erase their guilt by pretending abortion is okay, but only by acknowledging that it isn't. Humans make mistakes--sometimes big ones. Even a person who made a really heinous mistake can still be a good person if they recognize their mistake and seek to atone for it.

Once these people realize that the "pro-choice" people have been twisting their guilt against them, I expect them to become an overwhelming army of pro-life advocates.

6 posted on 10/09/2006 4:42:13 PM PDT by supercat (Sony delenda est.)
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To: wagglebee
Go to this FR link here to sign the petition to stop partial birth abortion.
7 posted on 10/09/2006 5:09:51 PM PDT by tang-soo (Prophecy of the Seventy Weeks - Read Daniel Chapter 9)
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To: backhoe

love it!!!


8 posted on 10/09/2006 5:22:23 PM PDT by GOP Poet
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To: wagglebee
Pinged from Terri OCTOBER Dailies

8mm


9 posted on 10/10/2006 5:02:23 AM PDT by 8mmMauser (Jezu ufam Tobie...Jesus I trust in Thee)
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Focusing only on the baby leads to charges of ignoring the tough circumstances of life, while focusing only on choice while tacitly ignoring the subject of said choice leads to the appearance of selfishness.

The new message is promising in that it appears more down-to-earth/"real life" and less dogmatic than the two traditional lines. It does not need to "pretend" abortion is fine and dandy, or leave the scared and frightened unwed teen out-to-dry all alone.

Another $25 to VoteYesForLife...

10 posted on 10/10/2006 1:33:54 PM PDT by Lexinom (www.VoteYesForLife.com -- the only chance?)
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To: wagglebee

This has been the mantra of Feminists for Life for years. Glad to see it's finally catching on. Pro-woman is pro-life.


11 posted on 10/10/2006 1:36:51 PM PDT by Hoodlum91 (I've been rocked.)
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To: wagglebee

Like the empty promise of the Welfare State, which has led to the economic enslavement of a significant fraction of an entire ethnic group in this country, so the abortion industry enslaves and entraps huge numbers of women who fall victim to the siren song of the empty promises of the pro-abortion crowd. Rather than "choice", in fact, abortion allows an easy out for irresponsible men, a chance to buy off a woman who has conceived their child, as if waving a wad of bills under the mother's nose will assuage a lifetime of regrets and trauma. Likewise, a woman who is swayed to kill her child under the guise of "exercising control of her body", often becomes a victim of the empty promise of wiping the slate clean and "moving on" with her life, as if such a heinous act can be covered over by the sterile and antiseptic appearance of the abortion procedure. Only later, when the realization of the true nature of the act becomes clear, does the woman who made the awful choice bear the weight of her conscience, often alone and without support. Abortion advocates are so blinded by their headlong desire for blood and slaughter that the consequences suffered by those who bear the burden, the murdered child and the guilt-ridden mother, are of little concern.


12 posted on 10/10/2006 1:53:18 PM PDT by chimera
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To: wagglebee
She opposed the tactics of one Wisconsin group that set up shot in Rapid City with pictures of aborted babies and said their message of "anger and death" should be replaced with one of "compassion and love."

For South Dakota, I agree with Unruh - these pictures are not needed since the people already have some notion of the violence of abortion. The images should be reserved for parts of the nation that comprise the stoniest ground - not conservative, traditional-values bastions like the Midwest. Use judgment and discrimination, people!

13 posted on 10/10/2006 3:30:05 PM PDT by Lexinom (www.VoteYesForLife.com -- the only chance?)
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Pro-Life PING

Please FreepMail me if you want on or off my Pro-Life Ping List.

14 posted on 10/10/2006 4:47:31 PM PDT by cpforlife.org (A Catholic Respect Life Curriculum is available at KnightsForLife.org)
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To: Lexinom
Focusing only on the baby leads to charges of ignoring the tough circumstances of life, while focusing only on choice while tacitly ignoring the subject of said choice leads to the appearance of selfishness.

Repairing the severely-broken systems involved with adoption is important, to be sure. There is something wrong when there are simultaneously queues of children waiting to be adopted and queues of parents waiting to adopt. I don't blame parents who go overseas for their babies--given how horrible the adoption system in this country has become, such action is probably prudent. On the other hand, the notion that the system should be supported in its continuing devolution even past the point where such measures become decessary is sick.

15 posted on 10/10/2006 5:14:41 PM PDT by supercat (Sony delenda est.)
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To: wagglebee
Instead of discussing how abortion "murders babies" she talks about how abortion exploits women

It's great that this is working, but it's horrifying to me that "murdering babies" isn't enough!

16 posted on 10/10/2006 6:52:33 PM PDT by jan in Colorado (Show me just what Mohamed brought that was new & you 'll find only evil and inhuman)
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To: wagglebee

"It's difficult for them to admit that they want to kill as many babies as possible and don't actually care about women at all."


They don't have to admit anything, all one need do is watch and listen. And learn.

My daughters' health class was having an abortion chat today. The teacher took the typical position one expects of a lefty teachers union type, and was apparantly quite surprised that 27 of the 30 students in her class (mostly girls 15 to 18 years of age) were anti-abortion unless the mothers' life is in danger. Only reason. Even rape and incest, these kids were saying, "why kill the baby?" "What did the baby do to deserve death?"

They were absolutely horrified that some girls as young as 12 and 13 have abortions simply because they were too stupid to use protection, or too morally bankrupt to keep their pants on.

Probably a result of many many churches growing by leaps and bounds in my AO.


17 posted on 10/10/2006 8:08:13 PM PDT by BLS (It's time to redefine your deiphobic mind.)
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To: backhoe
"If it's not a baby,
then you aren't pregnant."
Kind of hard to refute that.

Great post!: I expect no less of you, backhoe! (; So good to see you in top form as usual!

18 posted on 10/11/2006 2:04:02 AM PDT by .30Carbine (I, even I, will sing His Praises among the throng! ~Ps.109:30-31)
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To: wagglebee
There are pro-life feminists like the Rightgrrls. Not every feminist is necessarily liberal and pro-choice. That's a stereotype that many people have about feminism and it isn't necessarily true. Pro-Woman, Pro-Life is a good strategery in responding to the Left's claims that those who seek to ban abortion are white males who seek to keep women barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen. A lot of women oppose abortion precisely because it does not advance women's rights and frees men from having to take responsibility for the consequences of having sex in a relationship with a woman.

"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." -Manuel II Paleologus

19 posted on 10/11/2006 2:11:54 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: .30Carbine

20 posted on 10/11/2006 2:16:47 AM PDT by backhoe (Just an Old Keyboard Cowboy, Ridin' the Trakball into the Dawn of Information)
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