In direct terms, neither of your desires means squat. It's whether the owner of the restaurant wants to allow smoking that means everything.
In a roundabout way what you want does mean something, in that it will influence various restaurant owners to use their right to dictate smoking or non-smoking to cater to either or both of you.
I do, of course, completely agree with you.
Would that this were so.
In the Peoples' State of New Jersey, it is now against the law to open a restaurant or bar that permits smoking (unless it's part of a casino).
ML/NJ