[linda_22003]

And that's why it's called an "ideal". :-) But the poster was referring to monogamy within a relationship. I've been monogamous with my husband for well over twenty years (my 20th anniversary is today, in fact), but neither of us were virgins when we married.

[Antoninus]

And that's why it's called an "ideal".

Do you share that ideal? If you had children, would you teach them that ideal?

Happy anniversary, btw. Mine is in two days...