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This Mommy Track May Go Somewhere ("It's All About Me" alert)
The Los Angeles Times ^ | September 5, 2006 | Molly Selvin, Staff Writer

Posted on 09/05/2006 8:08:40 AM PDT by truthkeeper

This Mommy Track May Go Somewhere
Some companies offer a chance to advance on a schedule that allows more time at home

Attorney Becky Belke works at a Los Angeles law firm where colleagues regularly toil nights and weekends. But as a mother of three children under the age of 5, she wants to work only three days a week — even if it means she can't become a partner soon.

No problem.

Not only has Belke's firm, Manatt, Phelps & Phillips, agreed to her part-time schedule, it will put her on its partnership track if she wants to boost her hours when her kids are older.

"I know if I were home with my kids every day I'd be insane, and if I were here every day I would not be happy," the 39-year old said of her part-time schedule. "It's a good situation for me..."

(Excerpt) Read more at latimes.com ...


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: children; employment; family; genx; motherhood
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1 posted on 09/05/2006 8:08:43 AM PDT by truthkeeper
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To: truthkeeper

Some animals are more equal than others.


2 posted on 09/05/2006 8:11:12 AM PDT by massgopguy (massgopguy)
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To: massgopguy

LOL


3 posted on 09/05/2006 8:11:37 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: truthkeeper

The law firms and the government are the only ones that can afford this.


4 posted on 09/05/2006 8:11:40 AM PDT by freekitty
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To: truthkeeper
"It's a good situation for me."

Bad for the children, bad for the company, bad for the country. But good for me. That's what counts.

5 posted on 09/05/2006 8:13:04 AM PDT by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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To: Cicero

Yes, apparently.


6 posted on 09/05/2006 8:13:58 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: truthkeeper

The growing selfishness of working women is an awful thing to witness.

It used to be that childhood was about taking and adulthood was about giving back and sacrificing.

Feminism has changed that and made many women, not all, even more self-centered.


7 posted on 09/05/2006 8:21:49 AM PDT by Finalapproach29er (Carter, Reagan, Bush, Clinton, Bush II --> Appeasing Islam for 27 years)
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To: truthkeeper
"I know if I were home with my kids every day I'd be insane,

When woman say that it just makes my skin crawl

8 posted on 09/05/2006 8:28:43 AM PDT by fml
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To: truthkeeper

We had a Suzie Spellcheck(DBA) who had a baby and asked to go on half days(mornings) so she could spend some time with her baby. The company nobly allowed her to do it. A few months later, we found she was working a second job in the afternoons. BAHAHAHAHA!!


9 posted on 09/05/2006 8:30:54 AM PDT by AppyPappy (If you aren't part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
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To: fml

I hate it too. Why have them, then?


10 posted on 09/05/2006 8:37:27 AM PDT by truthkeeper (It's the borders, stupid.)
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To: fml

Wouldn't you hate to be one of her kids who reads this someday?

As a homeschooling mom, I'm constantly amazed at women who will tell me, in front of their children, that they could never do what I do because they wouldn't want to be around their kids all day. The problem with kids today...is self-centered, narcissistic parents.


11 posted on 09/05/2006 8:39:25 AM PDT by LadyNavyVet
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To: Cicero

If it was bad for the company... they wouldn't be doing it.... trust me.

If there was every by and large a group that personified the "WIIFM" life (That's "What's In It For Me" for those of you not typically around lawyers) it is Lawyers and Firms.

If it was a bad deal for the firm... they'd drop her in a heartbeat.


12 posted on 09/05/2006 8:40:44 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: Finalapproach29er
It used to be that childhood was about taking and adulthood was about giving back and sacrificing.

It was not just the feminists. It was a whole generation that decided they never wanted to become adults.

13 posted on 09/05/2006 8:53:40 AM PDT by madprof98
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" 'I know if I were home with my kids every day I'd be insane,'
When woman say that it just makes my skin crawl"

I FEEL THE SAME WAY! I would have gone insane if I had been forced to be AWAY from them. The most wonderful and richest part of my life was the time spent home with my children. The perfect day for me was a rainy or snowy day, no one at the door, no phone calls, just my sons and me....... reading books together, baking cookies, having lunch together, playing Candyland or Monopoly board games, etc.

Some women never have this luxury due to having to work, and I feel so blessed to have been able to be home. For those women who CAN stay home but deliberately escape from their children on a daily basis, I believe that they just don't know what real happiness is.
14 posted on 09/05/2006 8:57:31 AM PDT by Swede Girl
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To: truthkeeper

There is just so much wrong here........not so much in the article, but the judgemental comments made by FReepers........


15 posted on 09/05/2006 9:07:04 AM PDT by Gabz (Taxaholism, the disease you elect to have (TY xcamel))
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16 posted on 09/05/2006 9:20:03 AM PDT by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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To: fml
Skin crawling, indeed. Makes you wonder why she had kids.

Granted, there are times when I need a break from the little one. But, I much prefer her company to any of my office mates from the corporate days.

Ideally, parents learn its NOT all about them when the midgets are born. The thing is, over the last 50 years or so, women have been told that its all about them, their happiness and fulfillment are ultimate priorities -- so they don't even question their mindset when it comes to kids.

Kids just become accessories and extensions in this mass narcissism.

17 posted on 09/05/2006 9:43:02 AM PDT by RepoGirl ("Tom, I'm getting dead from you, but I'm not getting Un-dead..." -- Frasier Crane)
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To: fml

It's unfortunate that such women are fertile.


18 posted on 09/05/2006 9:53:29 AM PDT by Sloth ('It Takes A Village' is problematic when you're raising your child in Sodom.)
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To: Gabz

I have to rather agree. People jump on the slightest thing. Perhaps if the woman wasn't quoted and the offending statement was left out, there wouldn't be quite as much venom here.


19 posted on 09/05/2006 10:02:59 AM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue.)
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To: Finalapproach29er

"even more self-centered"


Ah, you're implying all women are naturally self-centered; the feminists are just MORE so.


20 posted on 09/05/2006 10:03:40 AM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue.)
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