[bert]

This has been a great summer. There have been more kids running around the neighborhood than ever. I enjoy watching them play endlessly with boundless energy. There are 9 boys who make up the crowd.

Moms who strictly made them stay in their own yards have relented and they roam about as they should.

I am tolerated and respected as the elder on the block, and they joyously pass me on my bike.... doing wheelies or other tricks beyond my ability.

I worry they think my interest might be perverted because of all the bad news that circulates.

[carlo3b]

I worry they think my interest might be perverted because of all the bad news that circulates.

I couldn't agree with you more, to no ones surprise, because I will alway respect men who enjoy being around children, not just our own, but all children..

I talk about my life with my kids often, and I guess the poor folks on my food and family ping list have to endure my endless prattle about my life as a single dad.. But, that is why I can understand your concern about being around other peoples kids.. What a shame, I had 3 or more kids in my home almost every day, especially around meal times..

I hoped it was because it was my cooking, but I know it was more, it was because I was a dad that they were comfortable talking to and joking with, and who loved just being a dad..

My last boy is now going off to college, to make his own footprints, and someday emulate his upbringing, and be a dad to his kids.. His absence will be deafening, but I have the love of my other 4 kids and my fabulous grandchildren who live close by..

So ride your bike my FRiend, and be a great adult hero to the young'ins while you can, it passes sooooo quickly.. Thanks for listening.. :)