[BraveMan]

I just can't fathom this . . .

I would gladly give away everything I possess, including all the rest of my days, in trade for just five minutes more with my son. I hope this author never has to endure the loss of Ivan or Constantin.

To answer your question Helen, yes you are selfish. Mind-munbingly, excruciatingly, unbelievably so. You are so blinded by your own self-importance you cannot recognize the incredible gift you have sitting along side of you. Ivan and Constantin deserve better than the likes of you.

[OldFriend]

Sorry for your loss. Hope there is comfort in memories.

[carlo3b]

I would gladly give away everything I possess, including all the rest of my days, in trade for just five minutes more with my son.

You are indeed a Brave Man my dear FRiend.. I cannot imagine the pain.. You will be in my prayers, and just remember you will have those 5 minutes and an eternity to hold him when the time is right..