[Hildy]

Mine probably lies. When I bring my weight up he says he wants me to lose for health reasons but sees me just like I was 36 years ago when we got married:

This is for all women who think like you: You're in denial. He sees you like you were 36 years ago? No, he doesn't. He loves you like he did ... but that's not how he SEES you. If you loved yourself and him, you'd lose weight if you need to.

[CindyDawg]

I'm not, I am and you missed my point. There are guys that encourage and build you up and there are guys that put you down and are ashamed of you. I'm blessed. However, as the poster that was ashamed of his wife pointed out, husbandship is an elected position and they can be impeached.