I find it hard to believe that anyone would choose to be gay. Why would anyone choose a lifestyle which is clearly outside of the mainstream and clearly unnatural, if not for being born that way? I don't understand it but some people have different urges.
The game plan is to make the lifestyle seem normal through TV, schools, movies, laws.. Don't kid yourself, the next generation will not find being Gay is anything but a simple choice, it will be up to their parents to set the record straight.. It is never too soon to have this conversation with your children and friends..
Because it may not be a 'choice' in the normal sense.
It may be more of a physical or emotional trauma at a very early age. Even school mates 'taugnting' may make someone rebel against the 'norm'.
Such as 'Billy likes Suzie, Billy Likes Suzie!'
Billy: "No I don't. I'll show you!'
And proceeds to kiss Marty!
As you say, if 'science cannot prove it is genetic' then the only conclusion is, that is isn't!
I can understand why a man might choose homosexual activity. It is similiar to why men go to hookers. It is SEX. And what better person to have pure raw sex with than a man who has the same sex drive as you do. Most women do not care to do it many times in a 24 hour period. Plus all the variety allowed. But most men would like to and could. There are all types of situations that could start this type of behavior and many things in our culture that make one say well it is O:K, I will never get caught, so what I can do what I want to. Leave me alone.
"I find it hard to believe that anyone would choose to be gay."
Ever hear of the actress Anne Heche? She said her lesbianism was a choice.