I disagree. I think feminists don't care whether most men take care (by being a breadwinner and protector) the women or not. They want the opportunity to be the breadwinner and protector of the family. If the couple agree, it's their choice. Call me a 'feminist' male, but I can live with that. But, I oppose abortion. Let's not blur the two issues: feminism and abortion like the radical feminists always try to do.
I concur in not blurring the issues. However, those who become feminists--are the ones who have been badly hurt by selfish males--who themselves have been hurt and had poor role models.
Normal, healthy girls desire a man for a mate and desire to build a nest. Normal, healthy guys desire to provide bread and protection for that Lady and that nest. Feminists have defensiveness or even revenge, not nesting, on their minds, sadly. Taunting hurting people doesn't heal--but prayers and kindness and time can.