I concur in not blurring the issues. However, those who become feminists--are the ones who have been badly hurt by selfish males--who themselves have been hurt and had poor role models.
Normal, healthy girls desire a man for a mate and desire to build a nest. Normal, healthy guys desire to provide bread and protection for that Lady and that nest. Feminists have defensiveness or even revenge, not nesting, on their minds, sadly. Taunting hurting people doesn't heal--but prayers and kindness and time can.
I agree with your entire remark Lyman and the part above is beautifully stated.
I have not read through the thread and sometimes get myself in trouble because of that, but as a 'stay at home' Mom I have viewed 'many' Feminists type women as more grasping, power hungry and 'manly' types.
Having voiced my opinion, those who disagree can keep their flames to themselves!