Well, it's true. Anyone so preoccupied by gay things has clearly got a little bit of a 'swissue'.
Is that why it provoked you to comment? Do you think this version of Superman is "too gay?" By your logi, the question has the same likelihood of being answered correctly as "Have you stopped beating your wife?"
SO now, having seen the movie, I can say that this version of Supes is not "gay." Your peristence in bringing it up will, however, call you into question -- but only by your own logic, whatever fuel may be inspiring it (I suspect Old Milwaukee).
I think the gay buzz that has been discussed on this thread has two sources: A) rival studios wanting to dim the show's earnings, and B) gays wanting to claim yet another part of the culture. You've been off the cultural battlefield too long if you don't understand B).