"I work for a ministry." Yikes! Some ministry! Do you blast everyone to whom you minister that way? I presume people in need of ministry are not "perfect" like you appear to be. I can just imagine.......
Look at his profile page and everything will become more apparent.
It is tragic. And this mother is going through some terrible grief and self-condemnation. I can't imagine the pain she's going through.
That said, the death of her child is the result of choice she made. It's my hope that other women might learn from her mistakes, that her life might serve as a warning to what could happen if, for example, you put career over family.
Again, yes, that's harsh. But if her mistakes help other women and save little ones' lives, then perhaps it's redemptive harshness.
"Perfect"? I'm not perfect. I'm in need of a Savior just like you and this woman and my wife.