[caryatid]

As for capturing the spirit of the American woman, I hope that you don't see the grasping, conniving Scarlett as the archetypal American woman.

Actually, yes, Scarlett epitomizes the spirit of the American woman ain the early 21st century. She was a feminist before that term had even been dreamed up.

More than any other character in the book, Scarlett O'Hara is relevant to today's world. How many Melanie's do you see on the scene today?

[Bigg Red]

I know quite a few Melanies and, fortunately, fewer Scarletts. Sorry you have had such bad experiences with women.