[wideawake]

It the woman is a b*tch, its his fault for marrying her.

Correct. It's not his fault that she's a terrible person, it's his fault for being stupid enough to marry a terrible person.

Is your argument, on a conservative forum no less, that people bear no responsibility for the stupid decisions they make?

If something goes wrong, its his fault for everything.

The only way you can pretend to have a rational argument is to keep it vague: "something" went wrong.

Guess what - in 50% of divorces, the reason for the marriage's failure is squarely in the husband's column.

Its all the 'males' fault.

Maybe that's your view of things: it certainly isn't mine.

Tell me, why do you hate men so much?

I see: because I'm a real man who knows how to keep a wife and have a successful marriage, I must hate the sissy losers who can't. I don't hate them. I'm just sick of their whining.

There's nothing more tiring than having to listen to some sad sack I know who is enraged about his divorce proceedings and crying about his custody, his alimony, etc.

Hey, remember when I told you that a woman who dresses you down in public and throws a bottle at you in a restaurant is crazy and that you should dump her? Don't come whining to me when you ignore my advice, marry her and then lose your shirt.

Hey, remember when I told you that I don't care how hot that girl in your office is, you'd better just leave it alone? Don't come crying to me when the PI your wife hires tracks her down.

You and so many alleged "adults" in America need to grow up - your failures are your fault and nobody else's.

[Al Gator]

This is idiotic.

So, according to you, everyone knows, 100% for sure, what is in the heart and mind of the person they are marrying.

How stupid.

"Guess what - in 50% of divorces, the reason for the marriage's failure is squarely in the husband's column."

Well Guess What? that means that the other 50 is in the wife's column.

Now why don't you start calling women who marry cads fools and idiots, and blame them for their dumb choices?

OOHHH, because he was a cad, and she was an idiot and married him, now suddenly, it STILL HIS FAULT! Wowwee, what flexible logic.

Women, more often than men, marry a bad choice. That's because women have this damnable flaw of always thinking, "I can change him".

This whole thing is ridiculous.

[Al Gator]

I remember you now.

You are the REAL MAN who never has problems with the little lady. And all us other LESSER WIMPS are just whiners.

Hope you never end up in divorce court. You will get your ass handed to you. You are a complete ignoramous until then.

[cinives]

Right. And if that behavior starts long after you married and had children ????

[Leatherneck_MT]

"You and so many alleged "adults" in America need to grow up - your failures are your fault and nobody else's."

So nice of you to paint such a broad picture of how evil men are.

[brazzaville]

Good morning.
"Hey, remember when I told you that a woman who dresses you down in public and throws a bottle at you in a restaurant is crazy and that you should dump her? Don't come whining to me when you ignore my advice, marry her and then lose your shirt."

And here I thought this thread was about a court system that traditionally sides with the wife, not matter the circumstance.

I like the 50% bit. That's hedging your bets, eh.

Michael Frazier