I do think people are more controlled than many would have us believe. I also think you have taken a step off the deep end.
>>I also think you have taken a step off the deep end.<<
No. When people take the step off the deep end, one of two things happen: They end up on the street or they end up shooting someone (sometimes themself). My ordeal ended three years ago. My youngest is 19 and she moved in with us when she was 16. My last "alimony" check was also several years ago.
I forgive, but I will never forget what happened, and is still happening to men on a daily, no, hourly basis. Some simply have the cajoles to do something about it and have no Christian beliefs to hold them back. The rest have merely submitted to the alpha dog of the family court.