I watched some of the tape. Banderas picked the fight. She was the one who escalated with invective and rage. Phelps is a kook, but Banderas picked the fight. Cheap, self-righteous jerk.
Righteous indignation perhaps, but hardly warranting the invective you employ. The whole idea of protesting the funerals who died for their country is so repugnant as to cause the most sedate among us to perhaps try to point out that such a stunt is rooted in hate. If speaking the truth is picking a fight, I guess she's guilty.