"Odds are you'll go over, you might as well learn the best and right way to do things."
I concurred. We made sure his head was on straight, that he really had a good clear realistic, unglorified picture (seek out some vets-old ones are the best, they've got the wisdom of sages), and then, all that was left to do was cover him in prayer before he left home and we've never let up since he left. God bless you all.
Thanks for your input.
Another poster said I had highjacked this thread which was not my intent. For that I apologize.
God bless you.