I hear ya, but the only problem is, guys get arrested even if they're the ones with a black eye and she hasn't even suffered a small bruise. Guys get scared that they'll be seen as monsters and be put in jail and I can't blame them.
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You are exactly right. One of my best friends got into an arguement with his hell-cat of a wife. She punched him, pushed him through a window, cutting his arm wide open. He didn't lay a finger on her. Guess who got arrested? Guess who was taken to jail? Guess who has to go to court-ordered Anger Management classes? (at $60 bucks a class). His wife? Not hardly.