Unfortunately, I am as subject to oversight as any man ;o)
Please accept my apologies.
Apology accepted.
I just get very indignant with the absolutists that tend to post on these type threads who refuse to see that there are no absolutes.
If I knew my friend 8 years ago, I may very well have talked to her about putting the baby up for adoption, but I didn't know her then, I know her now. And what I know is a wonderful mother, with a bright, well adjusted 8 year old that adores her 19month old sister and is the apple of her (step) Daddy's eyes.
Choosing to be a single mother is not an easy thing to do, but it is also not always the wrong thing to do.