[Hildy]

I just can't get a straight answer here...I'm not surrised.

[Theophilus]

I think she means both should respect each other, even when they vehemently disagree.

Now in our case, I won't fight the 2nd ultrasound at all. If she won't come to that conclusion herself.

If my wife wanted to get an amniocentesis (she does not) I would fight that at about the same level as I would if she took to not wearing a seat belt in the car because I believe it unnecessarily risks our baby.

If my wife wanted to get an abortion, well I won't go into that, but if my actions were indictable and I found myself before a jury of my peers, I would just hope and pray that at least one of them does not believe that self-determination is always the absolute and ultimate truth, virtue and right.

[SuziQ]

I just can't get a straight answer here...I'm not surrised.

Just what answer were you looking for?