[Antoninus]

And some people choose to make others miserable

Yes. For example, place-seeking parents who abandon their children to nannies and day care. Abandoned children who, in turn, find the most vile behavior to get their parents' attention. It's all about misery and making others as miserable as they have made you.

"Look at me, Mommy. Look at me! I'm gay! I'm gay! Look at me!"

[Sunsong]

And some people choose to focus on others' sins and do nothing about their own.