"Why are you being so nasty to me?"
I was taught by my Grandad, that to not be polite to a lady was to have absolutely no couth, and only a lowlife would do such a thing.
It appears my Grandad, God rest him, was and is, still correct in the statement he made to me years ago.
I think what it is, to some men over here, I am too strong for them and they can't pull the wool over my eyes. This type of man likes little "yes dear" women. I loved waiting on my guy, but I never put up with any guff, either. And that's why the some guys over here hate me.