In your estimation, was it choice or chance? and if choice, why?
It was choice with some outside influences that I won't outline here. My brother is not a proponent of "born gay". He says it's a choice usually brought on by outside influence.
No one asks for same sex urges [homosexual condition] but the resulting behavior is definitely a choice as to whether to engage in it or not. The problem is this distinction is rarely made or understood or accepted by the pro-gay activist and their agenda.