[Cecily]

Making the observation that someone is generally mean to women, and that women who call up said someone knowing full well they are probably going to be abused aren't too bright or self-respecting, is not the same as being mean myself. I believe women should have far more self-respect than to subject themselves to the venom of Laura Schlessinger, especially given her very checkered and troubled past, and considering that we all know by now what she is going to say on any given topic.

[pollyannaish]

Perfect people (well, people who think they are perfect) make the worst counselors. She is tough...but it comes from empathy rather than condescension.

I don't listen to her, but I can understand why people do and in my opinion she's helped many because she doesn't mince words and gets straight to the point. No bs, no self discovery...just "you know in your heart what is right."

FWIW, I will also tell you that people I have met who are really, really upset about her and her style are usually those who are doing something that she is against. Their anger is aimed at her, but in reality it is because they actually agree with her but don't want to. It used to be called a guilty conscience.

[chesley]

If my dog could speak, he'd have more self-respect than to go on the radio, or TV, or even a group therapy session, and publicly humiliate himself by discussing the issues he has with me (primarily involving simple surgical procedures I thought would be good for him, and good for me).

But really, there are some things that should be kept private, discussing only with your minister or doctor or the police.